When To-Do Lists Fail: Christian Encouragement for Overwhelmed Women

If you're a busy woman juggling responsibilities and barely staying afloat, you're not alone. Whether you're a mom, student, ministry leader, or working professional, the pressure to do it all can be paralyzing. But here’s the truth: when your to-do lists fail, God’s faithfulness doesn’t.

Struggling With Stress and Burnout as a Christian Woman?

Lately, no amount of to-do lists has helped me stay organized or focused. Some days, I feel one step away from total burnout. Have you ever felt this way? Like there’s just not enough time in the day? Like you’re too exhausted to keep going?

The mental and emotional load of our responsibilities can feel unbearable. And when it does, we’re often tempted to withdraw—from friends, family, and even our local church—seeking comfort in distractions that never satisfy. But even in the chaos, God gently reminds us of His never-ending faithfulness.

A Biblical Perspective on Stress and Overwhelm

In moments of stress, it’s easy to grumble about our workload. But what if we approached our responsibilities differently? What if, instead of complaining, we offered thanks?

“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:18

That shift in perspective has changed everything for me.

Seeing Your Responsibilities as Gifts from God

I’ve recently caught myself complaining about how “busy” I am. But God has shown me that many of the things I label as burdens are actually gifts entrusted to me:

  • God has given me a job to provide for my family.

  • He’s given me opportunities to serve His Church.

  • He’s blessed me with an education and a network to learn and grow.

  • He’s entrusted me with a home and the responsibility to steward it well.

Most importantly, He’s given me a Savior—Jesus Christ, my greatest need.

“And my God will supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:19

When You Feel Tired and Empty, Remember This

The things I once resented are actually good gifts from God (James 1:17). It’s my sinful nature that causes me to take them for granted and grumble. And while I may still feel exhausted some days, I serve a God who:

  • Sees me (Genesis 16:13)

  • Cares for me (1 Peter 5:7)

  • Provides for me (Matthew 6:26)

What a privilege it is to seek Him for help and guidance!

Encouragement for Christian Women Facing Burnout

Sister, if you’re feeling like you’re carrying more than you can bear, hear this: God is near. He provides exactly what we need, strengthens us in our weakness, and renews our hope when we feel discouraged. He doesn’t bless us with work, family, and resources only to leave us struggling. He walks with us, upholding and sustaining us through every trial.

Faith-Filled Reflection Questions

  • How has God provided for you recently? How can you show gratitude for His provision?

  • What are unhealthy ways you tend to cope with stress? How can you replace them with biblically grounded practices?

  • How does James 1:17 change your view of your daily responsibilities and struggles?

Final Word:
Your to-do list may fail, your energy may run low, but God’s faithfulness never fails. Lean into His presence. Let Him carry what you can’t. You are not alone.

Meet the Author
Ashleigh Kusuma

Ashleigh traded the cornfields of Illinois for the coastal mountains of Bangor, Wales, after getting married last summer. This big life change led her and her husband to join their local church where they’ve found a faithful community. Ashleigh started her Master’s degree in English and Creative Writing in the fall, exploring human emotions and faith through her writing.


When she’s not writing essays or updating her blog, @forhispeople_ , she’s pouring coffee at her local cafe, chatting with the locals. She loves to bake, crochet, and go on long walks—especially when the sun is shining and daffodils are in bloom. Although she’s still adjusting to Welsh weather, she’s learned to appreciate rainy days with a cup of tea in one hand, and a good book in the other. Through her writing and other hobbies, she hopes to bring warmth and encouragement to those around her.

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